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Many people suffer from anxiety over aging. They worry that as they get older, they can no longer enjoy the things they used to or find that they have regrets over how they have lived their lives so far. Midlife does not have to be a time to reflect on your life with regret. It can be a time when you start new hobbies, enjoy a new career and learn to live your life unabashedly as yourself. Here is how you can find inspiration in aging rather than anxiety.

Challenge Yourself To Be Healthy

If you want to age gracefully, you must take your health seriously. The components of overall health include skincare, exercise and healthy eating. Be kind to your skin; apply sunscreen and moisturize regularly when you go outdoors.

Growing older may make your workout routines more difficult than before. Learn how to exercise for your body and have fun with it. As you age, you become at a higher risk for falling, so try to focus on workout routines that increase your balance and endurance. Yoga can be a great option to build your strength, stamina, and flexibility. Exercise can also counteract heart disease and other illnesses.

Integrate more whole foods into your life. Whole foods not only give you energy, but they can boost your mental health. Consider investing in new kitchen gadgets to assist in healthy eating. For example, an Instapot can help you prepare easy, healthy meals.

If you are looking for guidance on making healthy changes, contact Tatiana Stollman. She provides nutrition consultation and is a certified yoga instructor and personal trainer.

Seek a Career Change

Look for new employment opportunities. Your work is a significant part of your life. Experts say that people will change careers about five to seven times. Work does not have just to be a means to pay the bills. It can be fulfilling and part of what makes you happy.

A new degree might help you to make your career transition. You may consider this a helpful option: a bachelor’s in business. It can provide you with valuable knowledge for many different careers, including starting your own business. Plus, with an increasing number of accredited online degree programs, you can take classes on your own schedule.

Become an Entrepreneur

If you’ve always dreamed of entrepreneurship, consider starting your own business. Use your passion to create a business plan to improve your company's chance of overall success. The business plan should have financial projections and a detailed description of your company and explain how you plan to sell your services.

You’ll also need to think about how to structure your business. Many new entrepreneurs structure their businesses as LLCs to gain tax advantages and to limit liability in case of litigation. If you’re wondering how to start an LLC, the process typically takes six distinct steps including naming your LLC, filing an operating agreement, and applying for an EIN.

Leave Your Comfort Zone

Sometimes a midlife crisis means you must make a fresh, clean start. If you feel stagnant or unsatisfied in your community or at home, it may be time to move elsewhere. People decide to move for many reasons, including a long commute, a house that is too big or too small, or a lack of career opportunities.

Look into places that you always loved and start the home search. Before you find a new place to live, however, make sure that you research the prices in the area to ensure you can afford to live there. You may find that it suits your lifestyle and bank account to look for a smaller place or a nearby city.

Find Your Midlife Opportunities

To turn a midlife crisis into something positive, allow yourself to learn new things. Maybe you change jobs or open a business, or perhaps you shake up your living situation. Incorporating healthier living can make a difference too. When you open yourself up to new experiences, you live a more fulfilling life.

 


Mental health is often put on the back burner to physical health, especially when we are occupied doing other things. However, it is important to take care of your mental health before you start experiencing symptoms of severe stress, anxiety, or depression. Fortunately, there are many things that you can do for your own mental health that cost little to nothing. While you should always consult with a professional if you feel you need to, here are some outside-the-box ways to help improve your mental health.


Go Outside

Experts agree that being outside in the sunlight and fresh air is good for one's mood and overall mental health. Some ways to spend more time outdoors include:


• Walking around the block

• Going camping

• Eating your lunch outside

• Trying your hand at nature photography

• Reading at the park


Always take the proper precautions when spending time in the sun or around wildlife.


If you can’t spend as much time outdoors as you’d like, add some houseplants to your home to bring more nature to you. If you’re concerned about maintaining your houseplants and keeping them alive, you can learn more about them here. Houseplants are also good for keeping the air in your home fresh.


Learn Yoga

People practice yoga for its many benefits, such as reduced stress, increased flexibility, and boosted heart health. Yoga is also a low-impact workout that people of all abilities can take part in. Some types of yoga include hatha yoga, Bikram yoga, and restorative yoga, each with its own unique practices and benefits to the individual. Get started with group or private sessions with instructor Tatiana Stollman!


Tai Chi

Tai chi is similar to yoga in that it helps reduce stress and provides physical benefits. However, it differs in that participants execute dance-like moves rather than poses. A tai chi routine is easy to incorporate by itself or alongside an existing fitness program.


Relocate

Relocating can provide mental health benefits such as a fresh start, the opportunity to form new social connections, and a change of environment that can reduce stress levels and promote personal growth. If you’re considering relocating to the Oakland area, check online rental listings (there are currently over 500 apartments available).


Think About a Career Change

Sometimes, dissatisfaction in the workplace can lead to mental health issues. If this is the case, consider signing up for an online degree program to help you change careers. Online programs allow you to go to school while still working or looking after family members. Check to make sure any degree program is accredited and compare the tuition and fees of several different programs.


Start a Business

As an alternative to changing careers, consider starting your own business. Starting a business can provide mental health benefits such as a sense of purpose, control, and accomplishment, which can increase feelings of self-worth, reduce stress levels, and improve overall well-being. You may want to learn how to start an LLC in California. This business structure provides benefits such as limited liability protection, tax advantages, and increased credibility for small business owners


Declutter Your Home

A messy, dirty, or cluttered home can exacerbate conditions such as stress and anxiety. Clean a little bit each day as you are able to avoid letting messes pile up to the point of becoming overwhelming. You could also consider hiring a cleaning service to come to your home once a month or so. It may be well worth it if you can afford to do so.


Consider Working From Home

If you are able, working from home can have several benefits to mental health. One of these is no longer having to commute, which is often the most stressful part of going into the office or other in-person work environment. Use the extra time you have from not commuting to practice some of these mental health tips.


Start Art Therapy

Art therapy involves using drawing, painting, or sculpture to express your emotions in a healthy way. Whereas traditional talk therapy uses words to work through how you are feeling, art therapy uses the creative process to reach a similar end goal.


Volunteer

Volunteer work is not only a good way to feel good about yourself by helping the local community, but is a way to meet people with similar interests as well. Many organizations need volunteer help.


Consider taking up one or more of these activities to take care of your mental health. Starting a business, practicing yoga, volunteering, and relocating are just a few suggestions that could make all the difference in your well-being.





 

Updated: May 3, 2023

I am mesmerized by what nature has to offer to us, what is there around us and sometimes we forget to appreciate or are too busy to notice. The good news is that it can be right in front of your house or just around the corner from it.


Every year my lavender plant and the Matilda poppy come to life around late May and the dance of the bees makes its grand entrance in June. How much I love to stop and see these bees, and butterflies and moths flying around and taking the precious nectar that represents their survival, and our survival too! They come and no matter how hard the wind can be blowing, they keep trying to get the nectar again and again. I took the video on this post in the past few days. Can you see how amazing this bee's legs are? They collect so much nectar there!


Back in the 1800s the expression "the bee's knees" was referred to describe something small or irrelevant. In the 1920s its meaning switched to refer to something of great excellence. Yes, of course what they do for us is nothing short of a miracle. Put in perspective that bees contribute to the pollination of about 75% of the plants that produce 90% of the food we eat. Wow! a 90% sounds like a lot to me when are are talking about over 7.5 billion people on this beautiful place called Earth. What message does this send? Absolutely! We need to take care of our bees.


Now, there is another aspect I want to share with you related to the video. When I saw the bee trying so hard to get back to the flower I could only think of how our lives are sometimes just like that moment: we face an obstacle, we are truly pushing against high headwinds. This is when we have to try harder and even get out of our comfort zone. Perhaps we even have to try harder than we thought we could. There are times when we face a challenge and we feel discouraged or fearful. After all we are just coming out of a scary time in recent history and we might be a little more cautious than usual. However, whenever we desire something with all of our heart, we will find the strength to achieve it. We need to set our mind in the right state and let nothing, absolutely nothing, stop us from getting it. Plot a route and go for it!




Accomplishing something that is bigger than ourselves can come from any areas of our lives. It does not have to be only professionally. How about that desire to learn how to dance or paint? How about reading some memoirs? How about changing your hair style? Even more, how about ending a friendship because it does not serve you anymore? The challenge can be in one or more areas of your life. By starting slowly and working on one aspect or challenge at a time, you will slowly shape the life you truly want to live and be able to live it. I am right here to lend you a hand!


Go out there and be brave! I know you can do it!


What big and small roadblocks have you encountered in your life and how did you surmount them? I would love to hear from you.

 

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